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Escapism is Not Freedom

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I meet way too many people who confuse escapism with freedom.

This is a deadly confusion for one's career and one's life.

Escapism is when we run away, when we numb the pain, or when we avoid things.  Escapism is not always constructive.  At best it rests, recharges, and inspires us.  At worse it lets us ignore things until the pain goes away.  However, escapism is not actively engaging issues, solving problems, and improving things.

Freedom is when we have the ability – the skill, resources, and opportunity – to make a decision and follow through on what we want.  Freedom is the ability to choose and not have circumstances or others dictate your choice for you.  Freedom is the ability to take and face the consequences of choice.

These two are NOT the same.

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Freedom and Passion

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You want to live your passion like all of us.  You have dreams, you have ideas, you want to bring them out.  There's something that burns in your heart to be born.  Yet, something constrains you . . .

Or perhaps you don't have that burning.  You're passionless.  Something was once alive in your mind, inspirations grew and prospered, but it's gone now.  Life is dull and drugery.  What happened?

In both cases, I'd lay pretty good odds that what you're experiencing is a loss of freedom.

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