Steve’s Update 10/3/2021

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A School of Many Futures: The print copy is coming soon – it took a few days more than I expected but I got some good insights out of formatting.  I give it a few more weeks before it’s ready.  

“The Agile Writer’s Mindset”: This is still in the brainstorming phase – and may have spawned a third book to work on in 2022.  It’s going to have a different voice, helping people see differently, while still having to use techniques.  I’ll be a better writer after this.

The Way With Worlds series: I’ll start writing the next book this month!  Really looking forward to getting back into it.  For 2022 I plan to do 3 books at least.

The Seventh Sanctum rewrite: After solving one more coding problem, I’ve got two generators left.  So I’m tired of tweaking generator code and I’m going to work on a test deployment to refresh myself.  I really should have done this years ago, but at least now I know Python and Flask!

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Steven Savage

The Intimate Effort of Gratitude

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“Have gratitude,” old New Age gurus and profit-seeking profits tell us. “Be grateful for what you have” is pounded into our ears by people that want to force gratitude. If you’re suspicious people are telling you to be grateful, your suspicions are well-founded.

But let’s step away from that and ask how we can use gratitude. How it can make our lives better – when we take ownership of it.  

Consider an adverse situation – not hard in the age of COVID-19 – can you find something that lets you feel gratitude? Is there a lesson there, a surprising benefit, a lucky coincidence? Is there something, in short, promising you can appreciate no matter how awful things are?

Ferreting out what is truly good in a situation changes your relationship to the situation. Finding something good develops an intimacy with the world, even when it’s not a pleasant part of the world.

In my practices of Buddhism, often informed by Pema Chödrön, she emphasized how unpleasant things became transformative. To feel adversity, to breathe in black unhappiness, was to get to know yourself and the world. It was not pleasant, it was not expected to be – but the experience of diving into bad feelings made life more real.

Gratitude, even in bad times, lets us find a new connection to the world. By having to look at a situation and find something truly and honestly good, we experience intimacy. Life becomes more real at that moment.

In turn, by practicing gratitude in bad situations, we can bring it to the rest of our life. We can appreciate things easier, take down our defenses a bit and get real. It may hurt, it may be minor, but our lives belong more to us.

It’s just gratitude on our terms. Though perhaps we can be grateful to the fake gurus and hope-peddling con artists. Their lies are a great way to point out the real value of gratitude.

Steven Savage

Steve’s Update 9/26/2021

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So I hope you’re doing well – allergies hit me hard so a little behind. But a lot is going on.

A School of Many Futures is out – and expect an update to the eBook shortly that fixes a few errors. The print book is formatted (which took a bit longer due to some unexpected challenges), so I’m going to try to queue up a draft copy tomorrow! The hard part is done so if all goes well with the cover, I can try and relax. https://books2read.com/u/bMwlPX

“The Agile Writer’s Mindset” is now on my mind, and will probably be a bingewrite, but as noted I’m thinking of doing a Zoom with some of you to discuss it. Plus it’s a chance to socialize!

The Way With Worlds series is going to be returned to in October, as noted. As soon as I get a breather (soon?) I’ll outline the Man-Made Disasters book. I wondered if I should call it that (Created Disasters, maybe?) but it seems good enough.

The Seventh Sanctum rewrite is back at it and I sorted out an IRRITATING problem that was all due to casting cases of data. That was it. So now I have to sort out one more option and I’ll have done all but two of the generators – and honestly, I may just leave those two oddballs out for now and get to solidifying the site.

And now, giveaways!

Steven Savage