Getting the Most Out of a Book

If you've been here ANY amount of time you know I'm big on self-improvement and people reading books to improve yourself career-wise (and of course personally and otherwise).

Just because you're reading it doesn't mean you're applying it to your life.  Sure some ideas may stick in your head, but even a really great book isn't fully used if you don't sit down and use it deliberately.

Now as I am always encouraging people to read up (as you can see by the book reviews), here's a few tips on how to make sure you get the most out of a book:

  • Keep shelves for your specific book subjects.  That way when you put a book back (or take one out) you'll be reminded of what you read in the past.
  • When you finish a good book, take an hour or two to sit down with it and review what you want to do with the knowledge there.  Add it to your schedule, notes, what have you.
  • Keep a to-read pile so you can think ahead on what you're reading.  This lets you anticipate what's coming up (and can re-remind you).
  • Go through your shelves and determine what books to keep and what to sell at used-book stores regularly.  This lets you really review what you want to keep and why – and also ensures what's on your shelf is a keeper.
  • Make a point of it, now and then, to go through your old books and reread important ones – even put them back in your to-read pile.
  • Make sure you keep a notebook with you (as I often recommend to do constantly) so when you read and see a great idea, you can write it down for later.

A good book engages with you.  If you want to get the most out of it you have to engage right back.

– Steven Savage

Listing your finest hours

I'm not a person whose jumped on the self-esteem bandwagon.  It's important to see your good points, but it's also important to have a foundation for feeling good about yourself.  Let's face it, if you think you're awesome you may not correct the stupid things you do – and the sense of awesome will rest on no foundation.

However, there are also times we miss what is good about us, we get depressed, we think ill of ourselves.

I recommend racking up a list of Finest Hours.

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Stereotype-Fu: Bring Them Along

Well I guess I wasn't done with my stereotype-fu columns was I?

If you're dealing with geek stereotyping on the job or career-wise (and I will go on about related issues Friday), there's many strategies I've detailed.

Another one I'd like to suggest is this – invite your stereotyper to experience just how neat what you're a fan or geek of IS.  In short, find a way to invite them along.

Take them to a film, lend them a DVD or a game or a book, invite them to have lunch with you at a local convention.  Get an appropriate "crossover" gift (give a baseball fan a DVD of "Princess 9" to show them anime, or a mystery fan a "Surrogates" graphic novel to introduce them to comics and sci-fi).  Show them how neat it is.

I think people are often afraid to be inclusive when the stereotypes come out – they don't want to be judged, they don't want to be humiliated, and they probably worry the stereotyper MIGHT be right.

Well forget that.  You've got enough common sense to know what they may or may not understand.

This has two advantages:
* First, you do something FOR the person.  This helps you connect with them and develops a bond period.
* Second, you get a chance to show them things are different and help them understand and appreciate you and what you care about.
* Third, the deliberate inviting-of people can help break many stereotypes applied to fans and geeks (which are often images of fans being antisocial).

Next time you're stereotyped in your career, invite people along for the ride.  Build some bridges and show people just how interesting what care about is – and make some friends!

– Steven Savage